The dog loves you, understands that you don't know any better, and tolerates your curious tugging. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. Hi , i am a sagittarian girl . He is so kind and thoughtful; brutally honest and very open when he is not withdrawn. Oh no, this vacation will be somewhere in the mountains where there'll be many hiking trails and places to rest in nature. Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. He's older too so idk is it possible that he breaks up with someone that he loves and 'never' talk to them again? Any advice from other Scorpio men out there would be greatly appreciated. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. Said we must become friends b4 lovers. So one of the things I said was 'it's not normal to not be able to communicate like a normal person at his age' and 'i felt disrespected and if i feel that way that probably means he is not for me, so he needs to carefully think if he really wants to be with me'. When it's clear that your Scorpio man has gone from one hundred to zero, shift your focus. Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. First he'll become stony and cold. I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. But that is okay with me because it gives me time to be alone and a chance to actually miss him. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. If he disap p ears, it might be your instinct to blow up his phone with calls and text messages until he replies to you. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. Keep this in mind so that you don't take his behavior personally. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. Mine came back after 5 years. He will be jealous in silence. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. Luv this hub. I cant figure out whats going on. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. but what actually is he doing? I said in my emails that I know he loves me too and that he broke up with me out of anger and he should think about it and let me know, but I havent heard from him yet. I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. I'm so lost please help. That's yet another "secret" he'll keep from you. So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Sorry to say that but then and only then do you get treated the best. Worrying about when he'll call will do you no good, so instead, make the day all about you. I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. Being in Love is wonderful. Very true. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. I decided to stop emailing him and just wait for him to think all this through. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. I mean we have made so many plans. Our Love is real we know it from the Start. The first thing and one of the best things to remember though, this is how the you may see . We just dating, taking it slow. Is this how Scorpio men behave? This is so true! He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. What should I do? Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. I know I hurt him and I regret and I said that. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 years and a half. All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. Give each other space. I understand it to a Point. I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. Anyway, we just been talking and starring at each other off and on. The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. 21 Signs A Scorpio Man Shows When In love 1. Mostly because they're afrai Like the fall of a paper airplane or (more appropriately, since, ya know- Scorpio) an artillery shell. I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. Scorpio man lives in his own way and does not care about others. I am a pisces. First, Scorpio doesn't want to be disappointed, so they lay back to ensure the feeling, whether it's only crush or love. i read here the Scorpio guy said "Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain." few days later, he message me telling his phone broke, and his chat is jammed. I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. I lost my mind. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). Make sure he sees that. In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. usually he will reply with yes, love. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. Is he testing me or just not interested all of a sudden? What do I do?? He left his job for something else and he hasn't been the same since . They feel everything! Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. Im a Capricorn so Im very hurt on the inside but Ill never show it outwardly. do I just go along with however he's feeling? What is this man saying? But, he will suddenly disappear for a few days. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. We had plans for a few months ahead too. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! He will make you feel like you are the only one for him, but this is only a ploy to make you do what he wants. It felt so perfect..like I just stumbled upon a soulmate. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. The difference with Scorpio compared . Nothing. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. Nothing. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. 2. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. Being with my Scorpio is like riding a roller coaster.everything feels picture perfect up until. Now he's gone. Too much of us isn't good. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. Of course the purpose of being happy as well as having fun is to let him notice. I really having trouble while dealing with him emotionally. When he gets offended, he will try to go about his usual routine in silence as a coping mechanism. He explained he didnt want to do that until we were "OPEN" in front of his daughter about our seriousness. Is this the end? Hi all, i m Scorpio woman n my partner is Scorpio too. And our conversation end with quarrel. This allows time for your Scorpio man to miss you. Ignore him, he will retalia 1. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. This protective behavior comes naturally to them. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. I just had the longest three days of my life. Be strong and dont let him control you. For your number 5 reason he withdraws and decides to leave, I don't think its for lack of compassion. He has never been mean or anything like that. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. He's not young, he should know I was a pissed female haha. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. Would appreciate your advice. If you notice the Scorpio guy getting possessive about you, be sure that he is in love with you. He is a Scorpio, sweet, caring, thoughtful, listening well, good Manners, a real Love Bug. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! But then I apologized and he responded that he needed to think about all this and take a time out for that, so he thought about it for 3-4 days, then he called me and I didn't respond and he left a voicemail saying that we shouldn't see each other anymore. The next morning he broke up with me via text. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. I know the Bug had a Gig near my Place so i went to Hogans to surprise him. Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. Have some self respect and dump these crazy scorpio loser dudes who have self centered ness as their #1 ! It's quite an experience to see the Scorpio man operate under adversity's black clouds. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. Hi im a scorpio female and i have this habit of disspearing for a few days when im going through all the above phases. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. It will only tell this Scorpio man or woman that you are too close, to begin with. No hidden but an honest clear answer and I like this very much. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. Learn why the Scorpio in your life is withdrawn and seems distant. I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. When you are with a friend, get ready to be bombarded with a lot of questions. He doesn't reach out and he doesn't reply when you contact him. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. I live in Wisconsin. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. If I ask him to be with me he says let's end this as I m too demanding and impatient . Travel. help, This does help about Scorpios!! He just needs more time , to make a palace for future . We haven't talked to each other much since. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? A scorpio man is something else. Magnitudes of a difference between each stage. The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. These planets govern war, aggression, sexuality, and deep transformational change. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. This goes on for a while until you take the unfortunate hint. I am at a vulnerable stage in my life right now. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. What to Do When Scorpio Man Ignores You? But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. What to do when Scorpio man ignores you? I didn't take him serious. Their understanding of others is deep and incisive. 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